The singles zone is no curse; it’s a world of free-minded and very emotionally healthy people. Often times you may feel your happiness is tied to finding yourself a man to be with. However, you can’t find happiness in other people if you aren’t capable of making yourself happy. Below are a few tips to be happily single:
Forget narcissism, the time you are single is practically the only time you are opportune to do things without planning for two or more. You have enough time to groom yourself to become the person that you desire to become. It’s the best time to discover your strengths and develop yourself, and focus on things that make you happy. You know those treat at the movies, spa, and club that a guy would give his girl? Yes, give yourself many of it – you deserve that! Work on your weakness and on your self-confidence.
In a relationship, both parties contribute financially and emotionally for each other’s needs. Often times, there are issues of extravagance, prudence by one of the party. However, when you are a single lady, things are quite different, you don’t have to check with anyone before spending and you have the liberty to use your earnings in a way that pleases you or save for a project.
As single ladies, we cannot deny that our friends don’t usually stay healthy when you are in a relationship. This is because you are so preoccupied with your lover that you barely have time for your friends. However, when you are single, you can freely relate to people, and utilize your time and plan your schedules to still hang out with your friends or buddies. It also opportune you to make new friends, attend events you like and unwind without breaking a heart!
Staying single for a while doesn’t mean you have become a hopeless, unromantic sweet lady, rather it gives you the rare opportunity to add value and develop your self to become so worthy so that the next guy to propose to you will see you so valuable, adorable and appreciate you.
1. YOU ARE NOT SINGLE, BUT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ‘YOU’
Forget narcissism, the time you are single is practically the only time you are opportune to do things without planning for two or more. You have enough time to groom yourself to become the person that you desire to become. It’s the best time to discover your strengths and develop yourself, and focus on things that make you happy. You know those treat at the movies, spa, and club that a guy would give his girl? Yes, give yourself many of it – you deserve that! Work on your weakness and on your self-confidence.
2. YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR FINANCES
In a relationship, both parties contribute financially and emotionally for each other’s needs. Often times, there are issues of extravagance, prudence by one of the party. However, when you are a single lady, things are quite different, you don’t have to check with anyone before spending and you have the liberty to use your earnings in a way that pleases you or save for a project.
3. YOU ARE ABLE TO NURTURE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
As single ladies, we cannot deny that our friends don’t usually stay healthy when you are in a relationship. This is because you are so preoccupied with your lover that you barely have time for your friends. However, when you are single, you can freely relate to people, and utilize your time and plan your schedules to still hang out with your friends or buddies. It also opportune you to make new friends, attend events you like and unwind without breaking a heart!
Staying single for a while doesn’t mean you have become a hopeless, unromantic sweet lady, rather it gives you the rare opportunity to add value and develop your self to become so worthy so that the next guy to propose to you will see you so valuable, adorable and appreciate you.