Each baby will feed at a different pace, some will want to drain both breasts at each feed, and others will want less. It’s just about you being flexible and getting to understand their patterns.
It is common for newborn babies to feed frequently. Some parents are happily feeding their baby on demand and others like to establish more of a routine. As babies grow, they feed more quickly and less frequently. Watch out for growth spurts (often around two, four, six, and 12 weeks) when they’ll probably feed more often.
As you breastfeed more, hormonal changes and the more your baby feeds will encourage milk production. You know your baby is well fed if they seem satisfied after their feeds and produce lots of wet nappies (at least 6-8 wet washable nappies or 5-6 disposable nappies in a 24-hour period). They should also gain weight steadily after the first two weeks, have times when they’re awake and alert, and your breasts and nipples shouldn’t be too sore after the first week.
Below are some of the reassuring signs that your breastfed baby is getting enough breast milk:
- They are having at least six to eight very heavy wet nappies each day. Their urine (wee) is pale and not concentrated and/or smelly
- Their poos are soft, yellow/mustard color. Breastfed babies may not poo each day, especially once they are past two months of age. Breastfed babies who are getting enough breast milk do not become constipated
- Your baby is bright, alert and responsive with moist lips and good skin tone
- They are reaching their developmental milestones
- They are having a steady weight gain when averaged out over a four week period. Breastfed babies tend to gain a lot of weight in the first few months and then their weight plateaus. They gain weight in a different pattern to bottle-fed babies
- Their muscles can be felt underneath their skin
- They are reasonably content for some time in-between their feeds
Remember if you need advice or support you can chat to your midwife, lactation consultant, or well-child nurse.
Foods To Increase Breast Milk Supply
Although there is very limited, or in some cases, no
scientific research to prove that the following foods help increase
breastmilk, they have been served for generations to lactating mums and
many mothers feel that these foods helped them.
Fenugreek seeds (Methi):
Methi seeds have been used for generations around the world
to increase breastmilk supply. There is a small amount of research to back this
ancient belief, but not enough to be sure that they are effective at this.
Fenugreek seeds are a source of healthy vitamins that are good for lactating
mums such as omega-3 fats. Omega-3 fats are important for your baby’s brain
development. Fenugreek leaves (methi ka saag) are rich in betacarotene, B
vitamins, iron and calcium.
Fenugreek tea (Methi ki chai):
It is a popular drink given to new mothers. Methi can also
be added to many dishes, especially vegetables, and meat dishes and can be used
while making paranthas, pooris or stuffed rotis.
Fenugreek (methi) is a member of the same plant family as peanuts (moongphali),
chickpeas (chhola) and soyabeans. If you are allergic to any of these foods,
you may also react to fenugreek.
Fennel Seeds (Saunf):
Fennel seeds are another traditional remedy for increasing
milk supply. They are also given to new mums to help prevent gas and colic in
their baby. The logic is that since fennel seeds are used by adults to ease
tummy upsets and aid digestion, the benefits of fennel can be passed to a baby
through the breastmilk. There is no research to back either of these beliefs
but many mums feel that fennel seeds have helped them or their baby.
Garlic (Lehsun):
Among its many curative properties, such as benefitting the
immune system and preventing heart disease, garlic is said to help increase
breastmilk supply. However, there isn’t much research to back this up.
If you eat a lot of garlic, it can affect the taste and smell of your
breastmilk. One small study found that the infants of mothers who ate garlic
tended to feed for a longer time, suggesting that babies may like the flavour
of garlic in breastmilk. However, the study was too small to draw any
meaningful conclusions. And some mums say that their baby gets colicky if they
eat a lot of garlic.
Garlic milk is a popular traditional post-delivery drink
given to nursing mums.
Green leafy vegetables:
Green leafy vegetables such as spinach (paalak), fenugreek
leaves (methi), mustard greens (sarson ka saag) or lamb’s quarter (bathua) are
an excellent source of minerals such as iron, calcium and folate, and vitamins
such as betacarotene (a form of vitamin A) and riboflavin. They are also
believed to enhance lactation.
Breastfeeding women are recommended to eat one or two
portions of green leafy vegetables daily. You could cook these vegetables with
spices or make snacks like thepla, vegetable poha or idlis.
Cumin seeds (Jeera):
As well as stimulating milk supply, cumin seeds are said to
improve digestion and provide relief from constipation, acidity and bloating.
Cumin seeds are an integral part of many Indian dishes and are a source of
calcium and riboflavin (a B vitamin).
Sesame seeds (Til):
Sesame seeds are a non-dairy source of calcium. Calcium is
an important nutrient for breastfeeding mums. It is important for your baby’s
development as well as your own health. Perhaps this is why it’s an age-old
ingredient in breastfeeding mums’ diets.
You can try til ke ladoos and use black sesame seeds in
foods like pooris, khichri, biryani and lentil dishes. Some also prefer to use
white sesame seeds in gajak or revdi.
Holy basil (Tulsi):
Holy basil tea (tulsi ki chai) is a traditional beverage for
breastfeeding mums. There is no research to suggest it increases breastmilk
production but it is believed to have a calming effect, improve bowel movement
and promote a healthy appetite. As with most herbs, holy basil (tulsi) should
be had in moderation.
Dill seeds (Suwa):
Dill leaves are a source of iron, magnesium and calcium.
Dill is believed to improve milk supply, ease digestion and wind, and improve
sleep. Dill is a mild diuretic and should be consumed in moderation.
You can use dill seeds whole or ground in many foods such as pickles, salads,
cheese spreads and curries. Dill tea (suwa ki chai) is a popular postnatal
drink.
Gourd vegetables:
Vegetables from the gourd family like bottle gourd (lauki),
apple gourd (tinda)) and sponge gourd (tori) are traditionally believed to
improve milk supply. Not only are these vegetables low in calories and
nutritious, they are also easy to digest.
Pulses or lentils (Dals):
Pulses, especially red lentils or masoor dal are not only
believed to improve milk supply but are also a source of protein, and are high
in iron and fibre.
Nuts and dried fruits (Meva):
Almonds (badaam) and cashews (kaju) are believed to boost
breastmilk production. They are high in calories, vitamins and minerals,
providing energy and nutrients. They make an excellent snack and are easily
available.
You could blend them with milk to make delicious badaam milk or kaju milk.
Dried fruits and nuts are used to make traditional foods such as panjiri,
laddoos and halwa for breastfeeding mums.
Oats and porridge (Daliya):
Oats are a great source of iron, calcium, fibre and B vitamins, and are popular with nursing mums. Oats are also traditionally believed to ease anxiety and depression.